How to Be Smooth with the Ladies
In order to become smooth with women you must have confidence, persistence, and a general understanding of what a woman wants and how they think. It will take a lot of time and practice but if you follow the steps below, you will be smooth talking the ladies in no time!
Steps
- Have confidence in yourself. One of the biggest attributes women find attractive in a man is confidence. Confidence is the foundation of being a ladies man so get ready.
- Have a good sense of humor. Women often times like guys whom has one.
- Know how to flirt with women effectively and efficiently.
- Learn how to seduce women if they wanted to be.
- Talk to multiple women. This can work for you on multiple levels!
- DO NOT get too close too fast to ANY female! Doing so could put you on a fast-track to heart-break.
- Don't automatically assume you'll get any. This will make you seem shallow as you thought you deserve it from all the women.
- If she turns you down it's okay, don't worry, the right one will come around some day.
- Try to look your best, and try to smell nice as well. Cologne may help. Shower DAILY, brush often, use creams if you have dry skin, shave if necessarily.
- Do NOT hit a girl, this will not make them like you, it might make her lose respect for you! Plus, it's illegal to hit anyone unless if it was self defense.
- Never make fun of mentally handicapped or gays or different in any way. It shows that you don't care and don't have a heart. Avoid being a jerk.
- Compliment her on the little things. Such as the way her hair looks, what she is wearing. But don't over do it as it may make her feel somewhat uncomfortable if you were trying too hard.
- Show interests in what she does, listen to what she says to you. Very important. Listening skills is one of the things you will need to have in starting something nice.
- Always be a gentleman. For example, hold the door for them, offer to pay for their bill on a dinner date, etc.
- Never do anything she doesn't want. Women give little hints so don't put your hand on her private area. So keep an eye out for them.
- Adore the little things and keep them in mind. Such as her favorite color (without asking, you can notice this one by the color she likes to wear most, the colors of her cell phone, some furniture etc.), her usual way to elegantly swipe her hair out of her face, etc., they will notice you actually fall for who they are, and not for what they look like.